Yes, you got him or he got you. It doesn’t really matter now as long as you’re already in a relationship. You love him dearly and you’re sure he does too. Now what?! How do you keep him? Or at least how do you stop his wandering eyes? Kill all the other women? No, that’s definitely not the answer. Guys are easy to please; it’s only us who complicate things. Here’s how you could be an eye-full for him:

1- Give him the space he needs

If he’s watching a football game, playing on his Playstation or just hanging around doing absolutely nothing, give him room for that. It’s perfectly alright as long as this is not the norm and he’s committed to his fair share of work and responsibility.

2- Don’t control him or boss him around

Guys like to feel they’re in control, especially Egyptian guys. Bossing him around particularly in front of other people might get you what you want now but will screw your life in the long term. Be smart and get him behind the steering wheel, however, you can always be the one to show him the direction. 😉

3- Please him sexually

And this one should go both ways. Ask him what he loves and do it for him every now and then to keep him satisfied. Both of you should be able to openly talk about this.

4- FEED Him

Cook it, buy it and act like you cooked it, order it. Just feed him.

5- Cut out any unneseccary drama-a.k.a. nakad-

Of course, if you’re feeling down you should let him know and he should be able to cheer you up. But cut out any “Nakad maloosh lazma”

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6- Talk with him not to him

El set el masreya raghaya; she usually speaks uni directional. You have to be different, listen to him about his work and by listen I mean REALLY LISTEN.. attentively. That means you have to try to come up with solutions for his work problems and learn how to follow up and ask about them later on. Discuss politics, football and whatever he likes. Of course, share your problems too but when he suggests a solution consider it “madakhaleesh men hena we tetala3y men hena” because that bothers them a loooooott. After a while, he’ll stop listening because he thinks his opinion means nothing to you.

7- Stop asking him if you look fat in this dress

Be smart; this never ends well. Because whatever he says won’t change what you think about your look. If he’s smart, he’ll always say “la2 habbty shaklek rofaya3” and if he said otherwise you’ll end up fighting or having hard feelings and to be honest he really doesn’t care!!

8- Befriend Him:

There’s no greater recipe for a healthy successful marriage than befriending your own husband, because that will be the key to any problem. If you’re better friends than lovers, you’ll make your relationship work out.

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