Where did Jennifer Aniston’s & Jennifer Connelly’s advice lead the poor Ginnifer Goodwin in ‘He is Not That Into You’ movie? Did the guidance of Sarah Jessica Parker’s three best pals in ‘Sex & The City’ ever hit the mark?

Let’s face it ladies. Our sisterhood is based on the power of the white lie; it provides us with comfort instead of the blunt truth. Because who amongst us would want to hear the truth when they can hear exactly what they want and need to hear? We say we can’t tolerate it, yet will accept it with open arms in our times of need.

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Below are 8 wrong love advice girls pass to each other:

1. He’s Not Worth Your Time 

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That’s your coded message to tell her that he’s not interested in her. But since there is no way in hell you will put it that way; you prefer to turn the table on him. It’s sisters before misters after all.

2. He Might Be Busy 

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Even if it’s true, can’t he just take a few minutes out of his very busy schedule to call her? Or even text her? You know what this means, but you still don’t want her to know.

3. He Definitely Didn’t Break Up With You; He’s Just Mad

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No, he isn’t. If he said he doesn’t want to be with her anymore, then it’s over. Why can’t we just let the bomb explode so that she can start dealing with it? Delaying it and giving her false hope won’t do her any good. On the contrary, you should try to save her dignity.

4. She’s Not Beautiful

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Okay, I know even if the girl is Cameron Diaz’s twin, you still won’t find her pretty, because hey, her boyfriend is your friend’s ex, and your friend definitely needs to hear how unattractive the new girl looks. Girls, rip the band-aid right off and tell the truth.

5. You’re Better Off Without him

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As long as she let him go, we tend to support her decision even if he’s a really nice guy. But what if it was wrong? What if this guy was the one for her?

6. He Will Call You

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Are you his sister? Do you have his calls plan list? No? Then, shut the hell up. Thank you.

7. Be Conversational, but Keep it Interesting

I wanted to save the dating tips for another article, but I couldn’t hold this one in. There are no rules when it comes to dating, and when we create some, we just complicate stuff. Leave the girl in peace.

8. You Should Definitely Break Up With Him

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Honey, have you heard the story from both sides? Maybe your pal is the one who’s wrong. Don’t convince her to take a step based on what she tells you. Ease the confidence tone down; it’s her decision that should rule at the end.