Do you feel like your life is at a standstill? Everything is going right but it’s all wrong. Nothing seems to please you, even the stuff that used to make you jump of excitement! Then you are at a cross roads and it’s definitely time for change. You can play it safe and keep going or take a risk and change it up. What will you do?

DO: Get Over It! be it a failed relationship, a job lost or an opportunity missed.

DON’T: Dwell on it! Because that will only put you down further. Time heals but it won’t fix everything. Get out there and change it yourself!

DO: Experiment With Different Things! There’s so much life has to offer than what meets the eye. Open yourself up for experiences and you never know where it will take you.

DON’T: Shut The World Out! And live in a bubble. It might feel safe but when you’re older and look back you will feel like you missed out.

DO: Think About The Future! Plan for it, reach for your dreams and enjoy every part of the rough bumpy ride to get where you want to be.

DON’T: Obsess! Life has a way of unfolding that you will never get. Stop worrying about everything and focus on what you have and motivate yourself. Never give up when it gets rough, because it will at some point.

 DO: Let People In! Those who will support, understand and be there for you. They will help you grow and provide a safe environment for you to be vulnerable.

DON’T: Hate People & Isolate Yourself! A friend’s stab to the back is hard to recover from, but it doesn’t mean that everyone is the same and out to hurt you. Same goes to relationships.

DO: Take Some Time Out! Don’t burn yourself and let the fast paced city get to you. Always give yourself a little time to “de-stress” and relax.

DON’T: Slack off! No one gets anywhere by delaying everything to tomorrow. Take initiative and don’t wait for your life to happen, go out and make it happen. Britney said it and so will I, if you want the life you dream of, you better work b*tch!