Why can’t we JUST BE friends; this must be one of the world’s oldest questions. Psychologically we are not cut out to be JUST friends; guys always want to nail the girl. Ahmed meets Sarah, for instance, he immediately starts rating and analyzing some of the basic facts:

1- How physically attractiveย is she?

2- How hard to get is she?

3- What are the chances of getting her?

4- How to plan it all?

Mostย guys basically think this way, whether ‘nailing’ her would meanย marriage or just a one night stand.

Now, why do Iย think it can never work out?

Someone will almost always develop feelings.

Let’s just start with the cold, hard truth. If you guys spend a lot of time together and get close, odds are, one of you will develop a little crush.

Friendzone.

No guy is willingly friendzoned; most guys are somehow forced into itย and dread hearing “you’re such a good friend.” They either try to claw and tear their way out of it, stop being friends or sadly accept the fact, while still trying to hit on her every now and then.

Soย whatย are some of the unique tacticsย guys will use?

Being “El Bro”

Guys try this one out a lot, actually getting way too close, “you’re like my littleย sister” or “I can never thinkย ofย you sexually ya benty!” just so the girl would drop her guard and then he can aim for the kill.

Being too nice and failing.

Some guys will try to be way too nice; y3raf omek w o5tek w 5altek w gedetek kaman just to be inย your good books. He makes them nag you until you eventuallyย surrenderย and get involved with him.

And the ones who will get too close then leave you wondering.

They will literally make you spill out all your deepest darkest secrets thenย useย them against you, just to leave youย feeling bad or make you wonder what the…..