“I am not in the mood…” once you read that phrase you imagine a woman declining a man’s approach for intimacy. This time, imagine a man actually declining the invitation! Pretty shocking isn’t it? It’s like a baby refusing candy, there must be something wrong. Well, there is. He is bored! Most couples get to a phase where their sexual activity can reach minimum levels. That doesn’t always mean that it’s bad, sometimes it means that it’s just stagnant. That is when you need to get out of your comfort zone to change things up!

                             Ryan-Barrett-LOfficiel-Hommes-Dailymalemodels-01

 

1. IT IS NOT ONLY RESTRICTED TO YOUR BED:

Why should you limit yourselves to just the bedroom? It becomes dull and numbing. You can still enjoy each other in various places and no, it is not wrong. What difference is it between the sofa or the kitchen counter and the bed? They’re all furniture after all!

2. EXHILARATING EXPERIENCE:

Surprise him in the shower every once in a while, he will feel desired and the whole experience will leave your knees weak.

3. COMMUNICATE:

You may not be the adventurous type of girl or shy, so talk about it with your partner. Find what makes you both comfortable and yet spices things up a little. Once you let go, you will really begin to enjoy each other.

4. IGNORING IT DOES NOT HELP:

Don’t turn to the other side of the bed and pretend like it’s all okay. Sex is an important aspect of every relationship whether for a man or a woman. It’s a basic instinct. Don’t deny yourself the intimacy.

5. USE THE ENVIRONMENT:

The surroundings can greatly improve your experience. A ticklish rug, a warm shower, a comfortable sofa or even a beautiful view of the sunset.

6. CREATE YOUR OWN RULES:

Don’t stick to ones created by middle-aged prudes in the 60s! This is between you and your partner and it is yours to do whatever you want. There is incredible power in the freedom that intimacy brings. Don’t waste it because your too lazy to get out of bed.