Everyone is fighting their own battle with life, but it differs from one person to another. It all depends on their personality and how they perceive sad news and deal with it.

As we all know, women are physically, psychologically and emotionally different from men. They are more sympathetic towards daily life incidents, which makes them more stressed even if they’re strong and courageous enough to face the world.

No one will be in charge of your own happiness except you; no one will feel your pain except you. Therefore, you have to take care of yourself in your own unique way.

Ladies, I urge you to follow these instructions to reach the ultimate happiness. Below are a few tips on how to be happy that don’t include marriage (the main and only source of happiness, according to our society):

  1. You do not need to prove anything to anyone. Be yourself, live as you wish, do what you love without paying attention to others’ opinions, do not follow the destructive question of (elnas hy2olo eh?) and do not even try to satisfy anyone except GOD.
  2. Try to stay strong. No one will heal your pain or notice your suffering; you will be the only person who is responsible to rebuild yourself after your fall and break down.
  3. You have to know that no one will love you as much as your family. Look after them and make time for them; they also need you.
  4. Your friends are your treasure; stay in touch with them as much as you can.
  5. Protect your heart; do not let anyone break it.
  6. Your job is the most important thing in your life; do not ever think about quitting your job under any circumstances.
  7. Try to get involved in more charitable projects; help others in order to be helped.
  8. Learn to be independent; complete your own tasks without asking others for help.
  9. Improve yourself. Do not stop learning or seeking knowledge (that’s for your sake).
  10. Stay away from depressing people. Run fast as you can away from negative people, or those who cannot see your progress.
  11. Try to be the source of happiness for those who surround you.
  12. Be proud of yourself; do not ever feel shame of your mistakes. Aknowledge them, learn from them, apologize and never repeat them again.

By: Lamis Medhat