You probably think you know everything about your partner, but you might as well be certain. It won’t cost you anything, only a happier life together. Here are some questions you need to ask for a clearer view and better understanding of your significant other:
1. What is your concept of marriage?
Each person identifies marriage in his or her own way. You need to know his take on the subject.
2. What is your favorite smell?
Each home has a certain smell. To keep your euphoria everlasting, ask your partner what smell he likes coming back home to.
3. Will there be a television in the bedroom?
This is a must, especially if you’re someone who can’t fall asleep without watching a romantic movie. You can’t have a laptop on your bed either while there is someone else sleeping next to you.
4. Will we have children, and if we do, will you change diapers?
A question like this will highlight if you will be raising the children together, or you will be the typical single mother who does everything on her own.
5. How important is sex to you?
You have to maintain the sexual excitement and never let that spark fade away. A healthier relationship includes a discussion of what your partner enjoys during sex as well as how often it is expected.
6. What do you admire about me, and what are your pet peeves?
For the future reference of dos and don’ts, there might be things you know nothing about that actually get on his nerves. This is the right time to find out.
7. How tidy are you?
If you’re a neat freak, you have to know. You might find yourself coming back home to a circus of dirty clothes and a sink full of dishes.
8. Would you be willing to go to marriage counseling if we were having marital problems?
There are times when you will be facing hardships. You need to know to what extent your partner is willing to invest in your marriage if the two of you can’t reach a common ground on your own.
9. How can I better about communicating with you?
Communication is key. This one just helps you build a stronger bond and understanding of one another without jeopardizing your relationship.
10. How do you want to spend vacations?
If you enjoy adventures, this is vital to know. Make sure there is always an exciting trip you’re saving up for. Take over the world together.
So what do you think? Have you found ‘the one’? Let us know in the comments section below.