What you accomplish in your life greatly depends on the people you surround yourself with, or in other words, it greatly depends on which people you decide NOT to surround yourself with.
Make a brand new start, be sure NOT to bring all your garbage (toxic friends) with you. You’ll feel much lighter, allowing ย you to have a more satisfying life, and most importantly, a happier one without:
1- The Self-Centered, Emotional Friend:
This friend is always making everything about her, turning all your problems around so they point to her problems.
Why be friends with arrogant pricks who would do anything to protect their self-image even if it’s over their friend’s.
2-The Anti-Plans Friend:
You are the one who always calls him so you guys can hang out, and when he finally answers, he makes you feel like he’s doing you a favor by simply going.
And if their highness did approve ย on the plans, they might send you a message on the day you’re supposed to meet at, and it might go like: ”Yeah, I’m going to be a little late. Is that okay?” as if you have a freaking option.
3-The Last-Minute Bailer:
You don’t need someone who agrees on plans and then bails on them that same freaking day. Or maybe agrees on the plan, but the second he’s offeredย a better one he ditches you in a heartbeat!
You don’t need someone you are always doubting if he/she will show up in any event no matter how important it is for you… CUT THEM LOOSE!
4-The Friend That Makes You Feel Like Shit:
You should never feel lonely when you’re with friends, true friends are always there for you no matter what mood you’re in. True friends will tell you when you’re making mistakes and warn you. But there’s a difference between a friend trying to save your ass and a ”friend” kicking you down instead of helping you get on your feet again. Don’t surround yourself with people who make you feel like shit.
5- The Devilish Friend:
Crazy friends who do crazy stuff make you feel alive, butย is that really the person you would want to share a prison cell with? Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
Crazy friends should be your high school friends cause that could be the only time when their friendship is convenient with your age.
If there is a particular person in your life that repeatedly doesn’t respectย you and causes you more sadness or pain than joy, it might be time toย toss that friendship where it belongs. The trash can!
