7 Things You NEVER Say To An Angry Person

September 7, 2016

I don’t think there is anyone out there who has never been angry, and being angry alone is a huge problem. However the real problem relies in the people you run into when you are absolutely losing it. Their words at these situations are enough to let you determine if you are ever gonna talk to them again. So if you wanna keep your friendships, NEVER EVER use any of these words when you see someone angry:

1- M3lsh

This is a must NOT use word. lma tshof 7ad mtdaye2 you don’t m3lsh him/her at all. Because “m3lsh” is not a solution, nor a comforting method; its just annoying.

2- So what

“Its not that important” dah 3la 2sas eh m3lsh!!! The answer for the “So what?” questions is simply “so I am angry now”. Never make someone’s problem seem dump even if its the most stupid thing ever.

3- Something great happened to me today

No one cares!! you don’t go to an angry person and state how perfect your life is. You just don’t. He/she is living the tragedy right now, so either shut up or live it with them.

4- But my life is worse

Its NOT a competition!! We are not trying to see who has more problems and we are certainly not looking for an extra negative energy.

5- So guess what

la2 27na msh 7an3’er el modo3. When you see someone who is literally on fire, you don’t change the subject. You don’t even let him finish the subject. If he/she is angry, then you have to talk ONLY about his/her problem.

6- Calm down

“2ehdi” la2 msh 7ahda ana kda 5als 3amtan. The worst way to calm an angry person is to tell him/her to “calm down” because hwa ms 7ayhda. The only affect of “2ehdi” is making this person more angry.

7- 2wli el7amdella

Ma hwa akeed y3ni el7amdella 3la kol 7aga, but you just don’t go and tell an angry person “2wl el7amdella”. He/she already knows that there are people who have bigger problems, but right now he/she just doesn’t care. Because their problem right now is the most important.