Avoid the need to always be right!
Whenever you feel the urge to jump into a fight with someone, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer.
You have to understand that nothing in the world can make you unhappy unless you allow it to. Talking about it and complaining will only keep it in your mind and will help you stay miserable. Let go.
Give up on the need to put the blame on others for what you do and don’t do or for how you feel. Start taking responsibility for your life and actions, that’s when you can really learn from your mistakes.
Avoid the need to impress others!
The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take off all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people drawn to you, effortlessly. Then you can really know if the people around you like you for who you truly are.
Avoid Social Networks!
Stop spending most of your life on Facebook or Twitter or any other social crap. Instead, take that time to find new passions that will nurture you.
Stop being around negative people, they will only bring you down. Start hanging out with people who appreciate what you do and encourage you to become better.
You have to realise that the world has enough for everyone. Competing with someone will only distract you from focusing on yourself and achieving your goal. It will make you a hater.
Avoid the Past!
You have to accept the fact that the present and the future are all that matter. I know it’s hard, especially if you’ve been through some bad stuff before, but letting go is the key to being happy.