No matter how strong and independent we ladies are, part of us (no matter how small) wishes that our guy would sweep us off our feet. Yet romantic guys are few and far between, but that’s not the problem. The problem is the guys who took romance to a clingy level, thinking that’s what girls want. It is what we can safely call a “talzi2” level!
It takes time to have an aha moment and find out that a guy is clingy, but the 9 signs below might help you out. If you notice these signs in your guy, you better show a clean pair of heels and run as far and as fast as you can.
1/ He Calls & Texts Without a Break
It’s actually charming when a guy texts or calls you, just to let you know he’s thinking of you, right? But that persistent non-stop calling, as if the more he calls the more chances he has for you to pick up… That’s definitely testing your patience!!
2/ The “I love you” Came Way Too Early
If a guy tells you he’s in love with you when you’ve only been on three dates, it’s a major red flag!!!
3/ He Never Stands His Ground In Fights
Whenever you get mad at him he retreats, starts sweet-talking you and placating you with apologies.
4/ He Is Ready To Let Go Of His Friends For You
That’s the worst of these signs. If he gave up his friends for you, that’s no sign of love, but insecurity. Also, he will be expecting you to do the same. As the song goes my friend…run, run, run
5/ He Buys You A LOT Of Gifts
Unexpected gifts are the best; no one can deny it. If it happens once that’s super cool, twice that’s cute, three times that’s….okay, but more than that… that’s enough!!!! It’s like he’s trying to buy your love.
6/ Where You Go He Goes
It’s quiet normal that sometimes you just want to hang out with your pals; it’s sisters before misters after all. If he either invites himself or just shows up, just pull out a gun and shoot him.
7/He Doesn’t Take Your Work Seriously
Since work keeps you from him, and occupies a big part of your day, he will constantly ask you to give it up. That just goes to prove how needy he is!
8/ It’s Him, Only Him & No One But Him
He gets jealous of the time you spend with anyone else, and hates sharing you with your friends or family. He wants you to spend ALL your free time with him. Whenever you tell him you have other plans, it’s always “Matenafady?” “Sibk menhom w yala nenzl”…
9/ No Answer = The End Of The World
If you go for one day without calling him, God help you. He will shower you with:
“Why are you ignoring me?”
“Are you breaking up with me?”
“Hey, I’m really worried. It’s been more than….an hour.”
“Wait a minute; are you injured?”
“ARE YOU ALIVE?”
Believe me; I should be murdered for even considering going out with you.
