By: Lamiss El-Fayoumi
In every relationship, there areย signs that indicate itsย destiny, whether it will be successful or will doom to an abject failure. Some people can see these signs and act as if nothing’s wrong though.
Nowadays, we hear of a lot of divorces or break ups! Thisย maybe the result of wrong choices or that one party cannot stand or understand the other party’s needs or flaws of character. As we all know, if you fall in love with someone, you have to be accountable toย the words โI love youโ, which means I will always be there for you, will put up with you in all conditions, andย face all difficulties or problems together.
Here comes the most important questions which arise from the storiesย I hear from friends around me: โWhy is it that the right person always seems to end upย with the wrong one?โ or โWhy can’t any party of the relationship realize that they got a gift from God until after they break up ?โ Moreover, the most famous statementย you can hear from eitherย party: โI triedย everything I can to save this relationship, but in vain.โ Why does everyone try to act likeย an angel? Why don’t we have the courage to confess that we mistreat others, or say I didย something that turned everything upside down and hurtย my soulmate.
Some general attributes such asย excessive jealousy, lack of attention to the other party, lack of trust and so many other things can all lead to the same destination, the failure of theย relationship. But there areย alsoย some other unadaptable flaws likeย selfishness, rudeness and thanklessness that can further damage it.
What is really noteworthyย nowadays and happens in most cases, is that one party insists to end the relationship during its very earlyย stages, as if they have an instructions manual for โHow to lose your partnerโ.
Some flawsย will definitely haveย any female lose her guy; being a โdrama queenโ is one of the most prominent ones. Our Egyptian guys canโt bear all of this drama, โnafashom 2osayarโ. They like their women to beย dependent, not capable of taking any decisions by themselves. Yes, he likes you to show your weakness in front of him, but not to that extent.
Every man likes to feel free andย enjoy his own personal space. He can adore you, but will still run away as fast as he can if you invade his space. Another mistake females often fall for is trying to change him. Our guys strongly believe that if their partnersย loved them, theyย would bear all theirย flaws. Don’t be tooย demanding either. Every woman likes her man to surprise her, but don’t expectย very expensive gifts. Being critical of him all the time is also very frustrating.
On the other hand, Egyptian guys are the most talented when it comes toย break ups!ย A man can do his best to winย her heart then begins to complicate everything and starts acting like โSi Elsayedโ. “Do not speakย or laugh this way, do not share your photos on social media, return home early โฆ. Etc.โ Theyย do not text her back, forget special events such asย her birthday or their anniversary, not compliment her look, refuse to meet her parents or talk about his ex. โฆโฆ. Etc.
All these small slip-ups can be very damaging to the relationship on the long run; be careful not to lose your partner.
