Today, I felt my husband was acting weird. We were supposed to have breakfast together, but he cancelled with me claiming he had a lot of work to do. He had this look on his face that scared me, as if he was mad at me or something. I asked him if he was upset, he said no. Then I decided to surprise him at work and take him out for dinner at his favourite restaurant. When I arrived at his office, he didn’t seem excited to see me and asked what I was doing there. Then I told him I had made reservations at his favourite restaurant, but he still didn’t even bother to fake excitement. I thought to myself that maybe he had some problems at work but that when we went out, his mood would change. On our way to the restaurant, he didn’t say a word. I asked again if he was upset, he said no. I asked if it had something to do with me, if I had done something to upset him, he said he wasn’t upset with me and that there was nothing. It’s then that I felt our love was fading; he didn’t want to connect with me or share his thoughts with me. I felt like he was falling out of love with me and that our love was slowly dying. At the restaurant, we had a quiet dinner and he quickly asked for the cheque, as if he couldn’t stand to hang out with me any longer. On our way back home, I told him I loved him; he smiled and didn’t reply. I can’t describe his behaviour. I felt so hurt and lost. When we went home, I asked him if he was coming to bed with me, but he decided to watch TV for a while then followed me to bed 30 minutes later. He didn’t even say goodnight. I cried. I think he’s fallen out of love, or even worse, his thoughts are with someone else now. I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m not sure if I can gain his love back, we are so distant right now and it is killing me.
My bike won’t start… and I can’t figure out why. It’s killing me.