Saying goodbye doesn’t always mean you stopped loving and caring about someone. It simply means its not meant to be.
Did you ever consider that maybe you’ve just lost it, or you feel that this relationship is not moving forward or going anywhere!
There comes a time when it’s just chaotic and poisoning to your heart; a time when you are stuck in that rut!! You have to let go but you will always be in love with them…So stop beating yourself about it and accept your new status quo.
Try to avoid these if you don’t want to let go
Loving Too Much
The first phases of getting together with someone is incalculable – as you are falling deeply in love you are not thinking the whole thing through – you’re just happy you found a person who is ready to love you, and is ready to accept your flaws and can live with your mood swings. You’re obviously excited, and with this excitement comes your bigger mistake and the reason you’re gonna blow it….YOU’RE GIVING TOO MUCH!
When you’re that much in love, you forget everything around you (family, friends and even career), and it’s never their fault cause they never asked you to. We just think if we sacrificed everything and we gave them all we have, they will be ours forever, and that’s when we get it all wrong!
You give and you give, then they start to get used to it. If you were in their shoes, you’d enjoy the attention as much as possible – because everyone loves to feel appreciated, right? However, when you come showering them with your affection, they start to get scared and ask themselves questions like, ”is this really it?”, ” is this the one?”. You can’t blame them, that’s a decision they have to live with for the rest of their lives. That’s when they naturally back off and you start to feel like they don’t love you anymore, then you start predicting imaginary scenarios in your head and reconsider the whole thing, just because you feel depreciated.
Nothing lasts forever, even the purest love may come to an end, not because love fades, but because of other issues, like trust, belief and faith that can’t be fixed once destroyed. People can move on but still think of their loved ones every step of the way. Work hard to avoid losing trust!
Truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.