F: It is very hard for me to believe, how a man can so easily cheat on a woman he claims that he loves, and not only that, but whom he is willing to start a future with?
M: I donโt really see a problem in that if the cheating is only through messages and MMS, you know all men do have the need and desire to just fool around through all kinds of social networks. It doesnโt entail anything becoming serious and it is without a doubt quite harmless.
F:ย Alright, then I guess it is also fair for us women to turn the tables around and act the same way every once in a while, after all we are humans too with similar needs and cravings. So there is no harm for us also in finding some excitement through any social network if it is harmless right?
M: Iโm sorry, I beg to differโฆ We donโt live in a community or with social morals that would allow women to act that way. I am a man; it is easier for me because I will not be judgedabout what I do.ย ย If anything, I will only suffer the consequences, whether they might be losing you or having to fight for you till I give up, which will leave YOU feeling sorry in the long run because of your stubborn reaction that led you here in the first place.
Why would I in a million years feel sorry for losing someone who did not even put my feelings into consideration,or the respect I ย show him when he is and isnโt around?It really amazes me how men give themselves all the right in the world to walk all over you and your feelings just simply because they are MEN! Excuse me but this is just a boring,totally bullshit excuse. You donโt have to necessarily make me the happiest person alive 365 days a year, but that does not mean that I will go and search for someone who might be more exciting just so as to feel that Iโm desired. How sickening could this be to us, Man you will never know!
The only explanation that I could rationalize with some comfort is that men are simply insecure, and the only thing I can put some blame on without feeling offensive is the society that made it so acceptable for them. At the end of the day, donโt you ever fret over losing someone who hadnโt thought of losing you while gambling with your heart at a moment of weakness.
