(L-r) RYAN GOSLING as Jacob and EMMA STONE as Hannah in Warner Bros. Pictures’ comedy “CRAZY, STUPID, LOVE.” a Warner Bros. Pictures release.
Since the beginning of time, men have claimed that women are very hard to understand and impossible to satisfy. Well, we’re hard to understand because sometimes we don’t even get ourselves. However, maintaining our love is NOT that hard. And even with all the different types of girls out there, there is a fixed checklist that will guarantee any girl’s eternal love.  

1- Take Care of the Details

Because small tiny details do really matter the most. They can be stuff she likes such as calling not texting. Mentioning something she once said and never expected that you were listening. Bringing up old memories or things that you both used to do. Even though these things might sound trivial, but they are what truly matters to any girl.

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2- Make Her Feel Safe 

They say that every girl wants a man like her father, someone who makes her feel safe. Assure her constantly that you will stick around. Most of us girls worry too much that one day we’ll wake up and find ourselves without our significant other, and it freaks the hell out of us. You need to accept that and always remind her that you can handle her craziness and that you will still be there no matter what.

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3- Stay Close to Her Friends and Family

This is very important, because a girl always invites her family and best friends into the relationship. You need to make sure that they like you, because otherwise, they will try their best to make her only see the worst in you. This will add unneeded pressure to your relationship.

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4- Be Spontaneous 

Routine is good; it gives stability to your relationship. But every once in a while, you need to do something new to keep the spark alive. Every man has a certain way of doing that, and of course it differs from one woman to another. It could be just as simple as getting her chocolate or calling at 4 am to take a walk.

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5- Make Her Feel Important

Even if you have a zillion other important things to do, she still needs to feel she’s your number one priority. She needs to feel that her stories are important, her silly problems are huge, and that even though you’re very busy, you still manage to find the time to ask about her.

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6- Be Consistent 

Don’t change on her. Don’t be super cute one day and then a total jerk the next. Don’t call everyday and then disappear for a week for no reason. Don’t let her guess what’s wrong; girls ALWAYS imagine the worst.

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7- Find Her Key

Like guys, girls have a certain key to their heart. Find that key; find a way to make her feel that no one else can unlock that door. Get to know her, and let her know you. This is how you guarantee that both of you will know how to deal with each other during all the ups and downs.

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8- Invite Her Into YOUR Life

Make her feel like she’s a very important part of your life and that her opinion truly matters. Almost all girls love it when you open up to them and trust them with your secrets and stories. This will make her feel more assured that you want her to be a part of your life, and will make you feel that you have a shoulder to lean on too.

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9- Appreciate Her

Appreciate whatever she’s doing for you, and never take it for granted. Women try to figure out the things you like, do them, and then act like it’s totally normal. Your job is to tell us it’s a big thing, because if a girl doesn’t feel appreciated, she will simply stop doing whatever she does for you.

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10- Support Her and Be There 

Support her ideas, her work, her dreams, her decisions and do NOT try to change her. That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t push her to become a better person. Just help her be a better version of herself, not of what you want to see. Never underestimate her abilities. Let her know that you are her backbone. Sometimes, all she needs is someone to listen to her and tell her that everything is going to be just fine.

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11- Compliment Her

Compliment the way she looks, the way she does things, her taste in music or any small thing that she doesn’t even like about herself. Tell her that the project she’s freaking out about is just perfect, or that her smile lightens up your day.

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12- Be Honest

Honesty is the best policy. Because we girls DO find out everything you’re trying to hide from us; we have our connections everywhere. We stalk you all the time and never admit that we do. So your decision to shield the truth is your first step to losing our trust.

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13- Have a Balanced Relationship

Don’t have a ‘take only’ or a ‘give only’ relationship. In a ‘give only’ relationship, you will be the one always sacrificing for the sake of relationship and pressuring yourself to make it work. With a ‘take only’ relationship, the girl does all the work and scarifies while you do nothing. The givers always reach a point when they want something in return, but receive nothing. And the takers always want more, and get disappointed when they receive nothing. This kills the relationship faster than anything else.

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14- Be Smart

Know what makes her happy and do it, and know what makes her upset and avoid it. Tease her and make her laugh. And always treat her like you’re still trying to win her. Avoid the things that will hurt her, even it’s as small as not saying good night. Always direct your attention to her. And never end the conversation when she says “fine” or “whatever”, except if you’re looking for a fight. Bottom line, stay smart!!

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Follow the tips above ONLY if you know that she’s the one, because trust me, this will make her love you forever. If you win a woman’s heart, try to never lose it because you don’t find love everyday.