Whether we likeย to admit it or not, everyone has been exposed to porn, in a way or another, at one point in time. Porn is all aboutย acting; porn stars are asked to exaggerate everything, including orgasms, obviously. Reality is, orgasm is notย absoluteย and it variesย from one person to another. Now, if you think about it, there is no reason to fake anything. So why do women fake orgasm? Here are a few common reasons:
Because they think it pleases their partner
They want to give their partners an ego booster, and they think this is the way to do it, even if they actually were genuinely enjoyingย the sex.
Because of porn
Sexually inexperienced women and men think theyโre expected to orgasm as ungenuinely as porn stars do. When they find theyโre not making enoughย loud and weird noises during intercourse, they wrongly think that something is wrong with them, and start faking it.
Because they think they must orgasm
While orgasm is, of course, a happy thing, it doesnโt really have to happen. You might think that you MUST orgasm, or the sex would be bad and youโll offend your partner. News flash: Not everyone has to orgasm, and that doesnโt mean the sex was bad!
Because they werenโt in the mood
Maybe they were stressed, preoccupied, or simply tired. They might have beenย distracted with other things, and as dumb as it sounds, forgot about the sex. If youโre in this situation, chances are, youโll panic and start faking an orgasm.
Because the sex wasnโt enjoyable
Sadly, this is quite common. Many women feel bad that they didnโt enjoy the sex, so they fake orgasmย out of fear of hurting their partners.
Because they want to get it over with
The best, and most effective way, to end a long boring sex session is to fake an orgasm and end it. Simple as that!
If youโre a woman who has faked an orgasm, you must know that you’re really not obliged to. If youโre a man who thinks their partner is faking it, and most probably she did at least once, itโs nothing personal. Most, if not all, sexually active women have at least faked it once. We just have to know itโs not mandatory!
