You make me feel safeโ. A sentence that tends to dazzle most men, not just you. When a girl tells you this exact sentence, you just have no clue what to do with it, do you? Is that good? Are you Superman? Or is it bad? More like sheโs friend-zoning you? Are you just a safe choice? Is the spark gone? Before you start over obsessing over this very simple sentence, take a moment to realise that itโs actually most probably a very positive sentence. So, what does it mean to have a girl say โyou make me feel safeโ?
You Make Her Feel Safe Physically
You could be one of those overly macho guys who makes your woman feels safe with you because you can literally beat down anyone to death – thatโs if they have the guts to come near her to begin with. If she means you make her feel physically safe, then it might mean that she sees you as strong or caring enough to defend her and her honour. But unless youโre in a very dark street, or a jungle, or an extreme situation of some sort, this is probably the last thing she means. A more city-like version of this would be you being there to protect her from the disgusting insects that make her jump over the table, or from the dark when the lights get cut off.
You Make Her Feel Safe Emotionally
She doesnโt feel afraid to fall in love with you, and as deep as it gets, it still feels so safe. She is not afraid that you will hurt her feelings or abandon her or play around behind her back. It means that there is an initial sense of trust, which (if true) is perfect. Making a girl feel unthreatened and keeping her heart at ease would save you from unnecessary trust issues, excessive jealousy, and panic attacks. Keep your girlโs heart at ease and you will have peace of mind.
You Make Her Feel Safe Verbally
Feeling safe with you verbally means that you make her feel that you are interested in what she says, that she can share her thoughts with you without needing to filter them and think once and again if she should tell you about that thing that happened the other day or worry that you will be unwelcoming in any way. If she doesnโt feel threatened that you will make fun of her, mock her words or thoughts, attack her while disagreeing, or judge her harshly for something she did wrong, this is great! It means you communicate well, and as all chick flicks have come to let us know (despite how boring they are to you, some things in chick flicks really do make sense) communication is the key to all relationships.
You Make Her Feel Safe Mentally
It means that you are not driving her to the point of insanity! Thats good! And very rare! No need to drive your woman more crazy than she can naturally get!
You Make Her Feel Safe Intimately
It means you are not over forcing yourself on her intimately, or not freaking her out by your demands, or freaking out from her demands. Itโs good. It means that she feels you are on the same level as she is, you understand each otherโs needs, and communicate well on that intimate level.
You Make Her Feel Safe…In A Not So Good Way
Very unlikely meaning. But if the context leads to this meaning, it might mean that she feels that the spark is gone, or that there never was a spark to begin with, or perhaps she even feels that although you donโt really make a good match sheโd rather be with you than be alone. Not so good. Not good at all!
The โDonโtโ Is Missing From this Sentence
She actually said that you DONโT make her feel safe! Did she?! Oops! If this is the case you should reread all of the above points and try to figure out what you are not doing or what you are doing wrong. This is bad! Break-up or S.O.S. bad!
