The Truth Behind Female Orgasm: Time To Get to The Bottom of This!

March 5, 2014

Before we dive into the topic, this is a FACT: all those women orgasming in TV shows, movies and porn are acting, period. The female orgasm is not that easily achieved and takes some understanding. Many women (and men) still have no clue how female orgasms work and feel bad with their inability to achieve orgasm as easy as those other women do. The stress of it all can be a downer for the couple’s sex life. The woman would feel like there is something wrong with her and the man would think that he is doing something wrong or that he is not performing well.

On the other hand, we live in a culture where discussing these things is considered a taboo amongst many families. As a result, the girl grows up not understanding her body and how it works which leads to her having a “mechanical” sex life; mainly fulfilling the man’s needs without ever fulfilling hers.

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So let’s get to the bottom of this and have you and your partner orgasming your way to a fulfilling, healthy sexual life!

Here’s what you REALLY need to know about orgasms:

Being able to relax with your partner is a great part of achieving orgasm. Having an understanding and knowledgeable partner goes a long way in helping you get to your orgasm.

Unlike men, orgasms for most women are mostly linked to feelings of love, appreciation and intimacy. While some other women are able to climax just with sexual stimulation. Every woman is different.

You have to learn to reach orgasm. You need to explore your body well enough on your own and with your partner to know what works for you and what doesn’t. Without that “self exploration” period, your chances of reaching orgasm are very low.

Communication is an important part of sexual satisfaction. If you are too embarrassed to talk to your partner about what you need then try to find your own language to communicate your desires.

Menstrual cycle is also a factor. Some women feel particularly turned on just before their period while others seem to feel orgasmic half way through the cycles. Again, every woman is different.

Don’t freak out if it doesn’t happen quickly. Most women take 20 minutes of stimulation to reach orgasms while others differ in time. Play around, relax and enjoy it, you’ll get there!

Most importantly, especially for Egyptian women, release your inhibitions. All that cultural stress put on you that dictates that you being sexual is wrong, IS WRONG! You are a sexual being and so is your man, enjoy that! Be confident in your sexuality and your body and share it with the one you love. Only then your mind will sync with your body and you’ll be able to fully experience the joys of orgasm.

There are various types of orgasms. Clitoral (a small, sensitive, erectile part of the female genitals at the anterior end of the vulva) stimulation which is what majority of women need to orgasm, there is also the G spot which some women report to have intense orgasms when it’s stimulated and finally a vaginal one which few women seem to achieve just by having intercourse.

How can men help?!

Cares about your pleasure as much as he cares about his. Makes sure that he does everything he can or what you tell him to do to help you achieve your orgasm.

Let’s you take CONTROL every once in a while.

Even if he lost control and orgasmed, he should summon the energy to help you get your orgasm.

He needs to also be willing to learn more about your lady parts and how the clitoris and G spot work to be able to please you. Have “exploratory” sex sessions to better understand how your bodies work.