So you’re done? You’re done caring for her? You’re done appreciating her? You no longer have the will to make her happy? To make her stay? Well,ย I bet you’ll regret that someday. For she is the girl who praised you for everything. The girl who loved you like no one and gave you all she ever could. The girl who saw all your flaws yetย chose to stay. The girl who made you a better man.The girl you chose to revealย all your weaknesses to because you knew that she’s the only one you truly loved. The girl you introduced to your parents because you wanted to marry her. The girl you decided to let go of because you stopped caring for her.
You think that letting her go is the right thing to do. You think you know exactly what you’re doing until it suddenly hits you. Someday, you’ll realize you lost the person you loved the most. You’ll realize that out of all the girls you met, she was the one you loved the most. You’ll remember how she used to make you happy, how she has taken good care of you when you were mad and how she made you smile when you were feeling down. You’ll remember that she was loyal and open for you. You’ll suddenly remember all the things you loved about her and how you two were perfect together, how you completed each other.
You’ll finally grow to understand that she was better at being you than you were. You’ll growย to understand that the girl you stopped caring forย is the same one you never actually got over. You thought there was something better but it was bullshit. It will hurt you like hellย to knowย that she’s starting over with someone new who knows her worth.You’ll still look at her like she’s the only one in the universe, because you’llย still getย those vibes whereย you feel helpless. For you’ll feel that your heart is being poked with a cold steel knife, whileย your heart is ripped and bleeding where it could no longer feel a pulse.The thing is, even if you tried to empower yourself andย resist that aching gut feeling you get when you think about her and how much you miss her, and even when you pretend to be all strong and mighty, the memories will probably still get the best of you. You’ll wait for her to call, but she won’t. And, every vibration that is not her name will send your stomach into a lurch and flatten you into the ground.
If you still have the girl you love, then go give her some love. Show her how happy you are that she’s in your life. FIGHT for her. Make her a priority. Don’t let your ego get in the way. Go out with her and spoil herย because the moment you’ll stop caring forย her, that’s when she’ll leave. Remember, she’s difficult. She requires efforts.You’ll think you want an easy girl who doesn’t needย effort but easy girlsย will never stay for too long; they will never beย the type of girls you’d want to marry. A girl who knows her worth will never settle for something less thanย what she deserves; don’t risk losingย her. She loves you but she will leave if she felt you’re taking her for granted.I know your youth and desire to get many girls makes you not ready for a commitment, but you have a blessing so donโt waste that on a girl who’s name you wonโt remember,later.There will be times where she drives you crazy but it’s only because she cares.You know she’s specialย so you better knowย her worth because if you didn’t, someoneย elseย will value how precious she is and will know exactly how to make her happy. Appreciate her before she’s gone because if she left, trust me, she will be the hardest lesson you had to learn when you did not want to.
