You’re scrolling through your social media feed, and there it is – the 1000th wedding post or story from an acquaintance or a long-lost friend. Suddenly, the anxiety creeps in. “What if I’m missing out on the most important phase of my life?” As if the pressure to find “the one” wasn’t stressful enough, now we’re bombarded with wedding parties, couple portraits, and heartwarming engagement announcements that make us question our life choices.
It’s like it’s not just about finding the love of our lives anymore; it’s more about ticking the box of getting hitched and finding someone, anyone, to stand by your side to cut the cake and take the first dance. The pressure to have a wedding has become the standard for relationship success.
We can get caught in a storm of bachelor/bachelorette parties, and the hardest question we ask ourselves is: why can’t I be next? As we attend another ceremony, we can’t help but wonder if we’ll ever experience the joy of walking down the aisle.
Okay, let’s take a breather. Is marriage the only measure of our goals? Are we really missing out, or are we just caught up in a series of coincidences? Perhaps the real adventure lies in embracing our own journey, complete with solo adventures, self-discovery, and other worthy goals.
Instead of submitting to FOMO, celebrate everyday achievements. Life isn’t a checklist, and love isn’t the only feeling that dominates us. There is no age limit to marriage, and there is no deadline to meet. Sure, marriage can be an achievement, but it’s not the only one. It’s crucial to remember that we are not in a race, there’s no winning or losing, it’s all about the pace you set for yourself.
